Re: Question about BCP 14 / RFC 8174

Michael Richardson <mcr+ietf@sandelman.ca> Fri, 29 August 2025 19:56 UTC

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Subject: Re: Question about BCP 14 / RFC 8174
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Comments: In-reply-to "Rob Wilton \(rwilton\)" <rwilton=40cisco.com@dmarc.ietf.org> message dated "Fri, 29 Aug 2025 10:24:24 -0000."
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Rob Wilton \(rwilton\) <rwilton=40cisco.com@dmarc.ietf.org> wrote:
    > Picking up on Brian’s prose, arguably writing “MUST xxx UNLESS yyy”,
    > “MUST NOT aaa UNLESS bbb” would be even clearer to readers.  A slightly
    > out-there suggestion could be to update RFC 2119 to remove
    > SHOULD/SHOULD NOT and introduce MUST … UNLESS and MUST NOT … UNLESS as
    > their replacements.

I would support that.

    > That would make specifications more precise and prevent folks from
    > using SHOULD to sit on the fence.

I think that people use SHOULD because MUST feels too emphatic.
It does not feel very polite.
But, it's not an invitation (in Caligraphy) to your great aunt for tea, it's
a technical specification.

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Michael Richardson <mcr+IETF@sandelman.ca>, Sandelman Software Works
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