Re: Why we really can't use Facebook for technical discussion.

Lloyd W <lloyd.wood@yahoo.co.uk> Wed, 09 June 2021 04:05 UTC

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From: Lloyd W <lloyd.wood@yahoo.co.uk>
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Subject: Re: Why we really can't use Facebook for technical discussion.
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Talking over others is why I top-post.

Lloyd Wood
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> On 8 Jun 2021, at 02:44, Randy Presuhn <randy_presuhn@alumni.stanford.edu> wrote:
> 
> Hi -
> 
>> On 2021-06-07 4:59 AM, Keith Moore wrote:
>>> On 6/7/21 12:31 AM, lloydwood@users.sourceforge.net wrote:
>>> Perhaps, if you're all proud of getting banned from Facebook, you might want to consider how you communicate more generally?
>>> 
>>> 
>>> https://hackcur.io/whats-wrong-with-loud-men-talking-loudly-the-ietfs-culture-wars/ 
>> Because misandry in the service of inclusion is no vice?
> 
> When (male) privilege is threatened, the reactions often look
> like (male) fragility.  One would hope to avoid zero-sum games,
> but I think one must admit the possibility that some stereotypical
> (but hardly inherent!) behaviors are at odds with inclusiveness.
> Having a particular genital configuration is not an issue.
> Interrupting and talking over others (for example) can be.
> 
> Randy
>