Re: tone policing

Rob Sayre <sayrer@gmail.com> Tue, 03 September 2019 03:55 UTC

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From: Rob Sayre <sayrer@gmail.com>
Date: Mon, 02 Sep 2019 20:54:53 -0700
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Subject: Re: tone policing
To: Melinda Shore <melinda.shore@gmail.com>
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On Mon, Sep 2, 2019 at 6:26 PM Melinda Shore <melinda.shore@gmail.com>
wrote:

> But I'm trying to understand the broader context here, as well.  What
> we're asking for is no more stringent than what's expected in the
> typical workplace, conferences, other technical bodies, and so on.
> In many cases, it's less.  Do you feel that the typical workplace,
> conferences like RailsConf, and technical communities like Mozilla's are
> unsafe for honest technical discussion?
>

It might help to be more straightforward about the fact that "rough
consensus and running code" can often mean that the opinions of some people
count more than others, on a given issue. For example, I don't expect any
of these RFC Editor function arguments will matter much to me, so I don't
think my opinion should count for much, unless I find a bug of some sort.
This is not a bad thing, in my opinion. It prevents vote stuffing,
obstructionism, spam, and many other kinds of bad behavior.

On the other hand, this approach does dictate a more hands-off approach
when there are competing solutions. I think the IETF has gotten worse at
allowing these situations to play out.

thanks,
Rob