Re: tone policing
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Date: Tue, 10 Sep 2019 09:32:12 +1000
From: Bron Gondwana <brong@fastmailteam.com>
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Subject: Re: tone policing
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On Tue, Sep 10, 2019, at 09:20, Dan Harkins wrote: > > Hi Joel, > > On 9/9/19 3:43 PM, Joel M. Halpern wrote: > > Dan, you asked for specific examples of speech whose acceptability has > > changed. > > > > A clear and simple example is personal attacks. It is no longer > > acceptable (or at least, we try to make it impossible) to respond to > > an argument by saying "you do not know what you are talking about, so > > we should ignore your input." Other even more extreme and personal > > comments were once accepted in this community. they are not accepted > > any longer. > > I witnessed someone at the mic tell a presenter that his was the > worst idea > in the history of the IETF. That's not really acceptable but it was also > way back > in the 20th century. I last saw something like that at the BIMI BOF in Prague at IETF104. Not quite "the worst idea in the history of the IETF", but a very strong and emotional "this is a horribly bad idea and I strongly oppose the IETF doing any work in this area and I will fight you to the death and die on this hill". And I'm glad people can say that about ideas. I disagree on this specific topic, but I do think the IETF needs the ability to say "not everything is a good idea"! I didn't take notes about who said that, which is probably a good thing :) I took notes during that session, so I know the concepts raised, but I didn't note who raised all of them. > I haven't heard that kind of talk in 2 decades. > Admittedly > I tend to hang out with a small group of people and probably missed some > egregious > behavior but I don't think personal attacks have ever been OK. But it wasn't "you're bad people", it was "this is a bad idea". Keeping that distinction is 100% a good thing. I had a good chat with the proponents of BIMI afterwards, and they were not dissuaded by their experience, which is good - but I can imagine it would have turned away people who weren't prepared for being told so forcefully that their idea was awful. Bron. -- Bron Gondwana, CEO, Fastmail Pty Ltd brong@fastmailteam.com
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