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On 23 Oct 2026, at 19:32, Bron Gondwana =
<brong=3D40fastmailteam.com@dmarc.ietf.org> wrote:
> I think so.  I don't believe that softening language and calling =
people "naughty little scamp" rather than "selfish disruptive jerk" =
improves the setting of clear expectations.  We can bikeshed/wordsmith =
the word, but this is the IETF's policy enforcement mechanism.  Force.  =
We are using a power not granted to everybody, to stop somebody doing =
something, because the IETF has determined that such behaviour is =
detrimental to the purposes and mission of the organisation.

Bron, that wasn't my point at all. My point is that the framing you've =
presented here here is incorrect and harmful. It is _not_ the case that =
everybody who behaves badly on IETF mailing lists has bad intentions. =
Some do, sure, but mostly we are just badly socialized. Maybe they can =
get better, maybe they can't, but the point is that that's the primary =
problem the mod team is supposed to be addressing. That's why we don't =
want BCP 83.

Furthermore, you _know_ that lots of people who behave badly on IETF =
mailing lists don't have bad intentions, and that's going to mean that =
you won't take action to "punish" them, because you rightly believe they =
don't deserve to be punished.

This is exactly the opposite of what the working group intended (based =
of course on my internal non-binding consensus call). We wanted quick, =
lightweight, non-judgmental action. This will also of course work for =
determined repeat offenders, but if we only apply the available remedies =
to actually ill-intentioned people, we'll fail.


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<html aria-label=3D"message body"><head><meta http-equiv=3D"content-type" =
content=3D"text/html; charset=3Dus-ascii"></head><body =
style=3D"overflow-wrap: break-word; -webkit-nbsp-mode: space; =
line-break: after-white-space;">On 23 Oct 2026, at 19:32, Bron Gondwana =
&lt;brong=3D40fastmailteam.com@dmarc.ietf.org&gt; wrote:<div><blockquote =
type=3D"cite"><div><meta charset=3D"UTF-8"><div style=3D"font-size: =
14px; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400; =
letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; =
text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px; =
-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration: none; font-family: =
Arial;">I think so.&nbsp; I don't believe that softening language and =
calling people "naughty little scamp" rather than "selfish disruptive =
jerk" improves the setting of clear expectations.&nbsp; We can =
bikeshed/wordsmith the word, but this is the IETF's policy enforcement =
mechanism.&nbsp; Force.&nbsp; We are using a power not granted to =
everybody, to stop somebody doing something, because the IETF has =
determined that such behaviour is detrimental to the purposes and =
mission of the =
organisation.</div></div></blockquote><br></div><div>Bron, that wasn't =
my point at all. My point is that the framing you've presented here here =
is incorrect and harmful. It is _not_ the case that everybody who =
behaves badly on IETF mailing lists has bad intentions. Some do, sure, =
but mostly we are just badly socialized. Maybe they can get better, =
maybe they can't, but the point is that that's the primary problem the =
mod team is supposed to be addressing. That's why we don't want BCP =
83.</div><div><br></div><div>Furthermore, you _know_ that lots of people =
who behave badly on IETF mailing lists don't have bad intentions, and =
that's going to mean that you won't take action to "punish" them, =
because you rightly believe they don't deserve to be =
punished.</div><div><br></div><div>This is exactly the opposite of what =
the working group intended (based of course on my internal non-binding =
consensus call). We wanted quick, lightweight, non-judgmental action. =
This will also of course work for determined repeat offenders, but if we =
only apply the available remedies to actually ill-intentioned people, =
we'll fail.</div><div><br></div></body></html>=

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