Re: discussion style and respect

Ted Lemon <Ted.Lemon@nominum.com> Thu, 11 June 2015 13:40 UTC

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From: Ted Lemon <Ted.Lemon@nominum.com>
Subject: Re: discussion style and respect
Date: Thu, 11 Jun 2015 09:40:53 -0400
To: Tim Chown <tjc@ecs.soton.ac.uk>
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On Jun 11, 2015, at 6:09 AM, Tim Chown <tjc@ecs.soton.ac.uk> wrote:
> Perhaps we need more coin tosses.

I don't think we do.   I was not impressed by the outcome of the last coin toss I witnessed.   If you get to the point where a coin toss is the best way out of the situation, there's probably already a failure to foster consensus on the part of the chairs somewhere in the rear-view mirror, and of course a failure to be willing to participate in it on the part of the participants in the process.