Re: Bad/Good ideas and damage control by experienced participants

Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net> Tue, 14 June 2022 14:25 UTC

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From: Miles Fidelman <mfidelman@meetinghouse.net>
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Barry Leiba wrote:
> Two things here:
>
> For what it's worth, we have collectively used "greybeard" to refer to
> long-time IETF participants, for various reasons and don't further
> this particular conversation, and it's not fair to say that we can use
> it to refer to ourselves but others can't use it to refer to us.  We
> can have a separate discussion about whether it's a non-inclusive term
> that's an artifact of the past and better let go, but at this point
> it's neither ageist nor misandrist to use it.
Well... I've always considered it a badge of honor.
>
> It *is* "greybeardist", if I may coin the term for the moment, to say,
> "All those greybeards are jerks."  But if your experience is that
> every time you've been treated badly it's been by a long-term IETF
> participant, it's NOT ageist to tell people that that's the case.
On the other hand, is it really a negative when someone is snarky with a 
snot-nosed kid who doesn't appreciate being told that their "great new 
idea" is a retread of something folks learned not to do decades ago?

Miles

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