Re: [73attendees] Attendance by country
"Mary Barnes" <mary.barnes@nortel.com> Thu, 04 December 2008 18:49 UTC
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From: Mary Barnes <mary.barnes@nortel.com>
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Yes, as I said YMMV. And, I'm not suggesting IETF be entirely indifferent to the fact that we have lives outside of work as I think in general, the schedule does accomodate folks in that the rotation of WGs in scheduling the Friday afternoon sessions. It seems to be fair in that I've never seen the same WG end up in that slot for two consecutive meeting. And, in RAI, it's most often been the WG I chair that gets that slot every other Friday. Also, taking us back to the idea that no decisions reflect WG consensus until they are agreed on the ML, folks missing a Friday session occasionally should not have a huge impact on their ability to influence the WG. And, the same can be said for folks that sometimes participate remotely. As I recall, we had that discussion in the past around folks ability to participate in the proposed Big Interim. And, yes, we are all volunteers and certainly can agree that none of us are likely compensated for the amount of volunteer work we take on in IETF. I just don't personally view it to be this huge personal sacrifice to miss a full weekend (part of the day on a Saturday of travel and always a full Sunday with part of another Saturday - on average) 3x a year to be that big of a deal. And, many people take the opportunity to bring their families (and significant others and friends) to the summer meetings, which are often in very "nice to visit" locations. So, that added benefit in my experience well makes up for the fact that we spend two weekends a year away from families. Again, YMMV, but since I was raised a military brat and was without a father for the majority of my life - I don't think you can make a general statement at all about the impact on kids in terms of whether a father was in the household (or a mother for that matter) based on how much time they spent away from their families. I had 6 siblings and indeed the experience likely had far more of a positive impact than negative on me as I was independent from an early age and cared for my younger siblings - and the household overall - I'm the OCD neat freak in the family - for over half my time growing up. I don't think anyone in IETF is an expert on family dynamics and it might actually be a good idea for such a professional to attend an IETF as research shows that we do bring our family dynamics and experiences into the workplace and how we interact with colleagues. So, if we could improve how we work together in IETF that might just have an impact on how we interact with our families ;) Also, given the technologies that we all have played a part in developing, we are certainly far better able to keep in touch with our families than anyone ever has been able to in the past :) I'll now go back to summarizing WG status so that my WG can make some progess outside the WG meetings, which is really how things should work overall. And, I'll hand out gen-art assignments tonite for next week's telechat, with the IESG being a prime example that alot of IETF work really does happen outside the meetings on a regular basis via audio conference and folks reading and evaluating docs outside the f2f meetings. Best Regards, Mary. ________________________________ From: hallam@gmail.com [mailto:hallam@gmail.com] Sent: Thursday, December 04, 2008 12:27 PM To: Barnes, Mary (RICH2:AR00); Phillip Hallam-Baker; DRAGE, Keith (Keith); 73attendees@ietf.org Subject: Re: RE: [73attendees] Attendance by country Most of the single parent folk I know actually have an easier time of it since they are sharing custody of the children with another party who is anxious for as much contact with them as possible. Dumping the kids on the ex for a week is usually an available option. Also the age of the children is rather significant as is the effect that dad being away has on their behavior. I don't think that the IETF should be entirely indifferent to the personal lives of participants as you appear to suggest. Most IETF participants can find alternative jobs even in a down economy - although the crisis of the past few months is something of an exception. But I really don't want to be placing volunteers with a choice between participation and their job unnecessarily. And I suspect that those of us who are full time corporate representatives are a minority in any case. And even if that were not the case, we are not recognized as such in IETF process. If we are going to argue for making meeting times on the assumption that this is a job then we should carry that assumption over to other areas. If we are going to continue to be a volunteer organization then we should encourage widespread participation by chosing meeting times than minimize impact on personal life as much as possible. It is not going to be possible to satisfy everyone everytime. But I don't see why the fact that some people are going to chose to travel on the weekend should oblige everyone else to. Or the fact that you have to get up for a 6am flight in SFO to make it back to Europe the same day argues for holding meetings on the Friday. On Dec 4, 2008 11:29am, Mary Barnes <mary.barnes@nortel.com> wrote: > > Again, > > a YMMV issue. Having spent 14 years in a both parent's working household > (and now being in a single parent household), this is still not such a > significant issue. In my experience, it's actually a bigger issue in a household > where the mother is a SAHM because they rarely get a break. And, yes, I > know this is a controversial point. When I was at Telecom '99, which required > more than two full weekends away, the guys were fussing as > the SAHM wives back home were complaining about all the > family issues without the Dad home for support and they were really > taken aback when I told them that the job that the moms were doing was far more > stressful than anything we were dealing with on a daily basis, particularly > when you consider most of us have opportunities of enjoying at least one nice > meal and we usually have someone that makes our beds daily, etc. There is > research that shows that the stress levels of mothers (determined by both > questionnaires and blood tests of hormones impacted by stress) is equivalent to > that of a soldier on the front lines of a war.
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