RE: Effective discourse in the IETF

Eric Gray <eric.gray@ericsson.com> Fri, 05 July 2019 17:50 UTC

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From: Eric Gray <eric.gray@ericsson.com>
To: Ted Lemon <mellon@fugue.com>
CC: Randy Bush <randy@psg.com>, Keith Moore <moore@network-heretics.com>, IETF Rinse Repeat <ietf@ietf.org>
Subject: RE: Effective discourse in the IETF
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I would, if I thought I had a reasonable question to ask.  At worst, I would learn something from doing so.

But I have known quite a few who would learn only that asking a question was a mistake.

From: Ted Lemon <mellon@fugue.com>
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Subject: Re: Effective discourse in the IETF
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On Jul 5, 2019, at 1:39 PM, Eric Gray <eric.gray@ericsson.com<mailto:eric.gray@ericsson.com>> wrote:
If I feel sure that I am wrong, I would think about the question further before adding to the inevitable noise.

Exactly.   And if further thinking didn’t help to resolve the dissonance, you might even ask questions! :)