Re: USA dominion: Re: IESG Statement On Oppressive or Exclusionary Language

Bron Gondwana <brong@fastmailteam.com> Sun, 26 July 2020 00:47 UTC

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Date: Sun, 26 Jul 2020 10:47:20 +1000
From: Bron Gondwana <brong@fastmailteam.com>
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Subject: Re: USA dominion: Re: IESG Statement On Oppressive or Exclusionary Language
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On Sun, Jul 26, 2020, at 02:33, Miles Fidelman wrote:
> On 7/25/20 12:24 PM, Salz, Rich wrote:

>> Paul,

>>  

>> Thanks for the info and the history lesson.

>>  

>> I will learn how to spell “Colleagues” :)

> Of course "colleague" has it's own problems - it implies that one assumes that all of one's addressees have opinions of equal worth.  For some, that's an expression of respect.  For others, it's kowtowing to Dunning-Kruger syndrome.  And some might take "Dear Colleague" as a sarcastic insult.

> You really can't win with this stuff.  Someone will always object to something.  Personally, I'm still good with old-fashioned knock-down, drag-out, technical exchange - the hell with the language & people's feelings.  Good engineering is good engineering, bad engineering is bad engineering.  All the rest is navel-gazing.


We can't even use "bipeds" because it's insulting to people who have lost a leg or are otherwise incapable of bipedal motor function.  (reminds me of the joke about the hick loudly asserting that he ain't no homosapien, he's a hetrosapien)

"Dear bikeshedders,"

Thankfully, words like "folks" or "colleagues" are rarely going to make their way into RFC text itself, because there's almost always a more specific class of person or entity that will be referenced by their role in any protocol or interaction that the RFC describes.

Bron.

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